Polyamory is bullshit. Total and complete bullshit. Your refusal to grow the fuck up and focus on someone other than yourself is demential to everyone around you. I am sick and tired of hearing people say “this is just how I am, I can’t change it”. Bullshit. You know what you are? Selfish. “I need to love more than one person”. Bullshit. You are too fucking immature and selfish to settle down and take responsibility for your relationship. How the fuck is it possible that someone would risk destroying their relationship with someone they profess to love more than they ever thought possible because they “need to love more than one person”? How could someone risk their child losing a parental figure because they “need to love more than one person”? How is it even possible?
I am not a prude by any stretch of the imagination. I have had over two hundred sex partners. If I am unpartnered and not in a relationship I will have sex with many people. But once I enter a relationship, that’s it. I’ve chosen you, I’m sticking with you. If I invite you to share my bed and my home I expect you to treat me with the same level of respect that I am treating you. This need to “love more than one person” is unacceptable. I have observed these so called “poly” relationships my entire adult life and I have never seen it work. Not once. All it does is destroy trust and respect for each other and those around them. It leads to resentment and bitterness. It does damage that can never be undone.
Yes, it’s true that many monogamous relationships fail. Having been divorced three times I can attest to the fact that some monogamous relationships don’t work out. But you know what? Many do. I have seen many, many monogamous relationships last years, some have even lasted decades. I have seen many relationships where two people end up together until they die. Yet I have never seen a poly relationship last more than a year. You know why? Because polyamory is bullshit.